Friday, January 5, 2024

Justin Turns 40

 Justin turned 40 on the 31st. We were lucky to have him home with us since it was a fifth Sunday and had no meetings. So that meant we got to give him presents and make him breakfast. The kids each picked out something from the store they thought he'd like. Some kids (James) picked something (sour cream and onion potato chips) they wanted to eat with him.




I got him a hydrological map of Utah to hang in his office at work.
Then we ate biscuits and gravy for breakfast.

Justin likes his birthday but he doesn't really like everyone to know it's his birthday. He doesn't want attention, just good food and play games. So Sarah and I sneaked into the church the day before to subtly decorate his bishop's office door. It's the only time he'll have a Sunday birthday as bishop so why not. He was mildly amused but the kids loved it. I also arranged with the music director to sing his favorite hymn in sacrament meeting. I don't know if he noticed that, now that I think about it.

During the second hour we met with all the youth and he made asked me to take a few minutes and talk to the youth which I did but only after making it very clear I only agreed to since it was his birthday. So then everyone in that room knew. He got off easy really. I was considering making him hand out cookies to the whole ward as they left the building.

That night we had all the family that wanted to over for dinner. The theme: Tacos. Justin's favorite food. His parents gave him a charcoal grill so that's where the magic happened.
We had chicken, pork, steak and elk with all the fixings.
Some of the crowd. I think we had 35 people total.

Forty cupcakes for 40 years! (Flan for him, cupcakes for non flan lovers). Then we played games and hung out until midnight. We saved the cleanup for the morning.
Henry wants to wish everyone a happy new year.

Saturday, December 30, 2023

Christmas Day and afterwards

At about 2 am in the deepest sleep I was awaken by Erica telling me that James threw up. Oh goodie. Luckily the mess was minimal and it didn't happen again but I didn't sleep well after that trying to half listen to him from across the house.

I took mostly videos Christmas morning but here are a few photos.
This sloth has a zipper on the back and inside are a 4 baby sloths. Nothing more perfect for Erica.

The sweetest part of the morning were the gifts the kids got for eachother and for Justin and I. Henry, especially, was giving out heartfelt gifts. Most things were things from his room he knew his siblings liked to play with. He wrapped up a set of service coupons like this. "From Henry Dye" in case I got confused.
Henry made this for Justin out of his old basketball cards. (He thinks he was channeling Garfield from the Christmas special and I have to agree.)
Erica drew this for me.
And painted this for Justin.
What's James so excited to open, you may wonder?
Wool socks from dad. He loves his wool socks.
My parents came by a few hours later making the Christmas morning rounds. I got my mom some new socks and dishtowels (sounds lame but she loved it). I got my dad some treats and a USU nightlight.
The kids got a mini tramp and before we even came down from our room they had moved it to the bottom of the 2 flights of stairs.
It stayed there for a few days but it's in the family room now. I'm hoping it helps with the wintertime wiggles. We spent some time that afternoon opening presents at Justin's parents, played some games and then came home early because we were all tired.

The next morning Justin and I found these outside our bedroom door.
We took Sarah and Henry to do baptisms for the dead. The littles hung out at my mom's house. By the time we got home from the temple I was feeling pretty sick. I felt tired and achy and cold all day. I took a nap and wrapped up in a blanket most of the day. Luckily we had enough leftovers to eat for dinner for days so Justin didn't have to do too much without me.

By Thursday I was feeling mostly better so we went bowling at BYU. I took a lot of videos because bowling with my kids is funny.
I told the kids if I beat Justin we could get ice cream. That's an easy way to get your kids to cheer for you. Not only did I beat Justin but I beat everyone. This may be my highest score ever. (We used bumpers.)
Friday we went to Texas Roadhouse because we had a giftcard from last year's work party. I don't think I would go to Texas Roadhouse unless we had a giftcard. Then we went in the mall to find the giving machines.
Erica chose a school uniform for a girl in Africa. I chose a newborn care kit for a new mom. Henry chose meals for a food pantry. Justin bought a chromebook for a student. I think James chose a goat and I can't remember what Sarah chose. It's a pretty fun way to give and opened my kids eyes to what sort of things people are in need of.
That afternoon we met up with Justin's family at our church building to play in the gym. In search of some pickleball equipment Sarah and I opened an unlabeled door and found a flight of stairs. So naturally we went up. 
This is the gigantic attic of our church. It's all HVAC and clean and tidy and not spooky but we had no idea it existed.
I mean, it makes sense that there's all this stuff somewhere, we just had no idea it was so large up there.
We could walk above the entire building. Oh the perks to having a bishop's key.
Back downstairs we/they played pickleball and basketball. The kids rode scooters but the littlest ones eventually settled in the nursery and played with toys. The last thing we did was pull out the laser tag guns and turn off the lights.



This is really just the midpoint in our Christmas break. Next up, Justin's birthday.

Christmas Eve

 Sunday morning we frosted the sugar cookies. I only made half the recipe this year because the kids get tired of frosting them and I end up eating most of them (love them but I don't need that many).




We only had sacrament meeting this day and it was mostly music which means I mostly cried. Afterwards we got ready to go to my mom's to see some family. I got to see my sister and her three kids and it was basically the best part of my day. These boys and I go waaaaay back. Jack lives in Minnesota now but I see him just as often as Josh who lives a half hour away. And Bella is a cute but busy college student.

My mom did the fishing pole game early so that my kids could have their turns before we left. Always a hit. Nothing says Christmas at Grandma's like fishing for presents.

After that we went to Justin's parents for dinner and festive fun. We ate ham and funeral potatoes, salad and jellos. Then the first ever Dye family nativity play.



Then during the talent portion of our night Sarah and Henry played a few Christmas songs. They did surprisingly well for only practicing together a few times.
Then we played Christmas pictionary/charades (you declare whether you will act it out or draw before you look at your card) and then we went home.

Erica left this note for Santa.

We put the kids to bed then Justin and I stayed up doing a puzzle while listening for any sneaky kids. When no one was stirring, we went to bed.

Santa came!





And to all a good night!