Saturday, January 30, 2021

Random Story Saturday: Birds

One day when I was 8 years old I was home sick from school. I was laying on the couch watching TV, (good odds it was The Price is Right or inappropriate-for-my-age Days of Our Lives). Suddenly a loud crash behind me startled me and I shot to my feet to see what was wrong. I saw glass all over the floor behind the couch. I thought it was the dining room chandelier from the next room that had fallen and shattered into the room. Then I saw a bird lying in the midst of the glass. "It's a bird!" I yelled to my mom who had come in. Then we saw the hole in the living room window. The bird was a pheasant and it was scared by some men working near its tree. The bird took off and beelined right for our large living room window. We found all this out when the worker came to our door to check if we were all right. The bird died. I had a great story for my classmates.

Later that same year I was driving home from a fishing trip with my aunt and uncle. We were in my uncle's truck in Thistle canyon and it was dark. Suddenly a loud thwack hit the side window next to my seat. My uncle stopped the truck on the side of the road to see what had hit the truck. We saw the outline of a wingspan in the dust on the window. We did not find the bird. I had a great story to tell my family.

Fast forward a few years. My parents have a wood-burning stove in the family room. We've never really used it because it doesn't ventilate properly but the chimney or stove-pipe thing was clear enough for a bird to come down and was stuck inside the stove. I didn't know it was a bird until I opened the door. It flew right out into the room. It took a long time to get that bird out of the house.

When I was 13 we were bird-sitting my sister's parakeet while she was on her honeymoon. I was also babysitting my little nephew. He opened the door to the birdcage and the bird flew out. As it flew across the room our dog Buddy barked at the bird. It dropped midflight and landed on the carpet. Dead. I did not look forward to explaining how that happened.    

My parents have a lot of trees in their yard and  I seemed to be the one to find the dead birds on the lawn. Why was our yard the place for birds to come to die?

Add in a few viewings of Alfred Hitchcock's The Birds and you can better believe I do not like birds. For a while there I was certain that there was something strange about me and birds. I have no cat stories, no dog stories. I only have bird stories. 

Monday, January 25, 2021

Januweary

To put it simply, there's not a whole lot going on around here. Justin has been working long days to finish up the report on Barney's mine by the end of the month. He has been working on this project for years and the end is in sight. I think he will feel satisfied when it is complete but since it's been a part of his life longer than two of his children, I can't help but wonder if there will be a little adjustment period when he moves onto new projects at work. We'll see.

I have been going through every box and drawer and tote in the house to find stuff to get rid of. While this is not unusual (you may argue it has become a past time of mine) I am finding less and less stuff to get rid of which is a little disappointing. But it is a good sign. It means we are almost down to only having what we love or use. And I can tell you exactly what is in every drawer in the kitchen, every tote in the storage room, every box under my bed. It's nice not to have more stuff than my brain can manage. I have also been deep-cleaning my house and seriously curtailing my screen usage. It feels good.

Sarah has been hard at work being a super student, super baby-sitter, super piano player. She doesn't do anything half-heartedly (except for her chores) and it's one of her greatest personality traits. She turned in her paper for middle school next year where she got to request which electives she'd like to take (orchestra and dance). She is so excited to leave elementary school but I don't know if I'm ready. She and I are definitely not ready for 8 am start time. She is hard at work learning some primary songs to play at Henry's friend's baptism and putting together her science project on the senses of smell and taste.

Henry is about half-way through his basketball season. He has practice on Wednesdays and games on Saturdays. He loves it. He is always ready to go early. Once we get to the gym, he is so chatty! He greets all his teammates, teases them a little, comments on their shots and dribbling as they warm up. It's hilarious. He is also super pumped about the Superbowl with his beloved Tom Brady. He is the first kid ready for school and kindly puts all the bikes and scooters in the car for him and his sisters to ride home. 

Erica can only think and talk about her upcoming birthday. Okay, not really, but it's close. Every day she has new ideas about her party and cake. She finally gets to have a big friend birthday party (We only do them at 7, 10, 13, and 16). Wait until you see what she has come up with for her birthday cake. I can definitely say I've never made anything like it. She has been having some drama with her neighborhood friends. It seems like every day she comes in because somebody said something or did something rude. She can be overly sensitive at times and I know how these things blow over as quickly as they start. I stay out of it and instead give her ideas of how she can stick up for herself and others and teach people how to treat her. This is such a girl thing.

James wants to be a ninja when he grows up. He trains by watching Kung Fu Panda and Ninjago and pretend (or not so pretend) fighting anyone in the house that will put up with his antics. He wants to take karate. I am mean and won't sign him up.  Maybe I'll sign him up for tumbling and he won't know the difference. He knows just about all the letters, he knows all the numbers and can do simple addition and touch counting. We are working on his pronunciation of L and TH. He substitutes 'w' and 'f' respectively. 

And we play a lot of checkers. If he's not roundhouse kicking a tower of paper towels, he is playing checkers. The first few days I taught him the moves and rules and then when I got bored I sacrificed my pieces one by one until he won. Last time we played I lost but I wasn't trying to lose! Sure I had to clue him in on all the mistakes he was about to make but every piece of mine I lost, I wasn't trying to lose. I'm a below-average checkers player so take this for what it's worth--either he is quickly getting good or I am really really bad.

Some days he wears this for the better part of an afternoon. He is sad when we have to go in the car because I tell him he can't wear it and be safely buckled. He doesn't care too much about football. I think he just likes to look big and tough.

My parents are in Hurricane for the winter. I drove past their house and saw this on the lawn and had to turn around and investigate. Dead raccoon? 

Nope, just some packing paper. My sister had the same thought when she drove by.

At parent teacher conferences I saw Henry's artwork in the hall outside his classroom. I agree--he is one smart cookie. His teacher says he LOOOVES math. I knew that but it was funny to hear his teacher be so emphatic about it.
We made homemade ginger ale. I liked it but I wanted to be blown away by the delicioiusness after all the work it took to make it (peel and boil and strain a pound of ginger, boil with sugar to make a simple syrup, mix with club soda).
It was better the next day. But I think homemade lemonade is easier and even more refreshing. I may try another recipe someday.

Ugh, I can barely look at this picture. Is this not the most depressing sight ever? Goodbye mountain view. I have been really struggling seeing the fields behind our house turned into never-ending houses but I was sick all day when this one was framed. I just hate it. Luckily it's a one story so I can still see the top of the mountain but I still hate it and I will never go meet these people because there's no way I can be civil. (There are two fences and a railroad track between us and takes 7 minutes to drive there. It would actually be weird to introduce myself.)
Saturday Justin and I went to Makan Makan in Sandy. It's an Indonesian restaurant. I've never had Indonesian food and if there's anything that gets me excited, it's tasting new flavors. This place did not disappoint. Justin and I geeked out pretty good on every bite. 
When you have to take another bite because you feel like you missed out on one of the many flavors of your last bite, it's a good time.
Today at Reams James found a monster truck school bus. It's been awhile since I have seen something so ridiculous.
Scratch that--Friday Erica glued two pictures from her homework together and made this. I hate it. She thinks it's ugly too but she also gets such a kick out of it she won't throw it away.
So that's where things are during the second-longest month of the year (July feels longer). Good thing we didn't buy the kids sleds for Christmas because there have been no opportunities to use them. James asked when it was going to be winter. I told him it was winter and he replied, "No, real winter." I don't know, bud. 

Wednesday, January 13, 2021

Movie Stuff

After school a few weeks ago Henry asked me if I ever checked my email. Why do you ask? "Because I emailed you today but you didn't write back," he replied nonchalantly. I explained that I check my email in the morning but usually not again until later unless I'm expecting something.  Later that evening I checked my email. This is what I found from Henry. (Keep your eye on the timestamp.)


Fri 12/18/2020 9:28 AM

To: You


Hi mom, this is Henry, we are having a movie in my class and we were allowed to bring pillows, blankets, and stuffed animals, but I forgot my stuff.

Can you bring all 4 of my puppies, Muhu, Patriots blanket, and Dumbo by 12:35?

XOXOXOXOXOXO

From Henry

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Fri 12/18/2020 9:30 AM

To: You


make it 12:30

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Fri 12/18/2020 9:31 AM

To: You


And my squishmollow

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Fri 12/18/2020 9:36 AM

To: You


PleasePleasePleasePleasePlease!?!?!?!?!?

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Fri 12/18/2020 9:36 AM

To: You


Mrs.Luke gave me your Email.

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Fri 12/18/2020 9:48 AM

To: You


Hello?......

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Fri 12/18/2020 9:52 AM

To: You


Mom???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

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Fri 12/18/2020 9:58 AM

To: You


Hi mom, we are having a movie today at about 12:30 and I forgot the stuff I was going to bring. Can u bring Muhu, my Patriots blanket, all 4 of my puppies, and my squishmollow? Pease!?!?

XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

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Fri 12/18/2020 10:03 AM

To: You


And Dumbo. Please?

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Fri 12/18/2020 10:38 AM


To: You


Oh, and Dumbo. Please?

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Fri 12/18/2020 12:30 PM

To: You


Mom it's Henry, we are having a movie and we were aloud to bring blankets, pillows, and stuffed animals but, I forgot the stuff that I was going to bring so can you bring me something by 12:30-135

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After I read these emails I felt really bad that I didn't take him his stuff. But he didn't seem to care as much after school as he did in his messages. That kid....


Tuesday, January 5, 2021

Trip to St George

Our Christmas break was extra long this year. We had a full week off from school before Christmas so we decide to spend that first weekend of the break in warm and sunny St. George. We left Saturday afternoon after Henry's basketball game. We stopped at Hermie's in Cedar City for dinner and that's where I realized I had left James's backpack with all his clothes on his bed at home. Luckily he had his blanket with him so he wasn't too traumatized but I still had to buy him pajamas, socks, underwear, pants and shirts that he didn't need at Walmart when we got to Hurricane.  

James was asking a lot of questions about where were were going. He didn't remember the little house! We stopped there for a night last February on our way to the Grand Canyon but he didn't remember that or the time we were there the year before that.

Sunday morning we went to Zion. The tunnel is always a good time.

Then we drove around for a bit to find a hike Justin wanted to do.

We hike an area that didn't really have a clear path so it was more like exploring with absolutely no people around and that's how we like it.
James wore one snow glove the entire time.


The favorite part for the kids was this narrow stretch that we had to work together to get through.


Then we drove around the other part of Zion and then got a flat tire on the way back to the little house.

Monday morning while Justin was getting two tires replaced on the car, we entertained ourselves by doing puzzles and watching Mark Rober videos on youtube. Thunder Junction Pioneer Park Red Fort Indian food Tuacahn.
After lunch we met my sister and niece at Thunder Junction. It was so nice to see them!
We said our good-byes and then went to Pioneer Park so the kids could climb on things because that's all they want to do.



This is the hill that Erica took a big fall from and scared me half to death. I was watching from down below because I hate heights (but watching my kids up high is just as fear inducing). Erica was trying to climb down and slipped and I saw her cartwheel fall about twelve and land out of my view. She screamed so loud that people all around turned to look. Justin was near her and so I called to see if she was okay. She was okay meaning she didn't hit her head or break a bone
She had scrapes and bruises on her left hip and ribs. She was pretty sore and sad and scared the rest of the day. We left the park right after that.
We ate dinner at Red Fort. This is an Indian restaurant that is exactly like Bombay House in Provo. Bombay House isn't open for dining so we were all about going while we were in town. This was our kids' first time eating Indian and they loved it which is a good and bad things. Good in that I'm hoping they'll choose it for their birthday but bad because it's expensive to take them all.
From there we headed to Ivins to the Tuacahn theater and on the way we stopped to see the Saturn and Jupiter align. It took forever to find because we didn't think it was actually it.

This was our first time at Tuacahn. We had tickets to see their live nativity. We got there with plenty of time to spare so we wandered around and got hot chocolate.

I gave Justin a hard time for looking at the phone screen and not the lens.
This was his response. Touché. 
We didn't want to wait in the line to see Santa but we did go take a look.
And then we found our seats.
The stage and mountain behind the stage is so cool. The show was great. It was narrated along with some music. There were real animals--a donkey, goats and even a real camel! All the performers wore masks too which didn't even register for a few minutes. It's weird that it wasn't weird.
Tuesday we packed up and went to Snow Canyon. I've wanted to do the Amphitheater hike for a long time but we have either ran out of time or the weather was too bad on previous visits but this day we made it happen.                           
Can we just admire the blue sky for a moment? It was easy to forget the Christmas was three days away when we were hiking around without jackets and the sky was so blue it hurts your eyes.
Erica was really wary at first and held my hand everywhere she went but she slowly started to find her hiking feet again. I stayed close to her.
Sarah, on the other hand, took off.




At the end of the hike there was a sand dune hillside. I think this was the favorite part. They would race each other running up the sand and then race run/falling down.
From there we headed to Veyo for lunch and then drove the rest of the way home. It was a great break from the winter weather and nice to get away for the first time in months. 

But it was also here that I got the news that my dear friend from growing-up died from a six-year-battle with colon cancer. 






I love you and miss you, Mel.